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MONDAY MADNESS · NOVEMBER 9, 2026Christmas Gift Guide 2026: 15 Popular Gifts for Her, Him and KidsThe top-rated gifts from my storefront lists: hot toys, gifts for her and gifts for him, plus lists under $25, $50 and $250.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 9, 2026Christmas in Breckenridge 2026: For Couples, Families and Fur BabiesPlan Christmas in Breckenridge 2026: romantic getaways, family Christmas activities, dog-friendly hotels, Christmas Eve dinner, and sample itineraries.Read More →FREE PRINTABLE · NOVEMBER 9, 2026The Sunday Check-In: A Little Game for Two People Still Figuring Life Out TogetherIncludes all 35 questions, instructions for the bowl game, printable cut-out question cards, and a weekly reflection worksheet.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 8, 2026Beauty on a Budget: Affordable Finds I Actually UseAffordable beauty finds I actually use, most under $25: makeup, tinted SPF, body care and hair products from NYX, Maybelline, CeraVe, Aquaphor, Dove and TRESemmé.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 7, 2026Best Thanksgiving Getaways 2026: 15 Places to Escape for the HolidayMountain cabins, big cities and tropical beaches, with costs, family fun and pet-friendly picks.Read More →FRIDAY FINDS · NOVEMBER 6, 2026What to Wear to Thanksgiving 2026: 10 Easy Outfits for Her and HimCozy casual, sweater dresses, dressed-up dinner, football and flannel, and a sharp suit with no tie. Every piece linked.Read More →SHOP TILL YOU DROP · NOVEMBER 6, 2026Best Wellness and Fitness Gifts for Men 2026Men's Movember: the wellness, recovery and fitness gifts the guys actually asked for, plus a free Movember check-in printable.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 4, 2026Black Friday 2026: The Shopping Scoop, All in One PlaceTarget, Walmart, Best Buy, Amazon and Sephora sale dates, the hottest toys, Toy of the Year and my shopping prep list.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 4, 2026My Top 5 Beauty Must-Haves Over 40: For Women and Men in 2026My five beauty essentials at 44, what midlife skin needs, 2026 skincare trends, and a simple 5-product skincare routine for men.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 4, 2026Thanksgiving in New York City 2026: Where to Eat, Stay and PlayPlanning Thanksgiving in NYC 2026? The 100th Macy's Parade, where to watch free, parade-view hotels, Thanksgiving dinner, Home Alone 2 fun and a 5-day plan.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 2, 2026Things to Do in Orlando November 2026: Events & Holiday FunFestivals, Christmas lights, Disney holidays, Winter Park events, Thanksgiving weekend and dog-friendly adventures, plus my Orlando bucket list.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 2, 2026Thanksgiving in Orlando 2026: Turkey, Theme Parks & a Little Holiday MagicThanksgiving dinners and resort buffets, theme park celebrations, Christmas lights, Turkey Trots, free festivals, dog-friendly outings and a five-day itinerary.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 2, 20262026 Midlife Beauty Favorites: Everything I Actually Use, Love & Keep BuyingMy real skincare, makeup and haircare at 44: morning, night and travel routines, tinted SPF, drugstore finds and a few splurges.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 2, 2026Thanksgiving in Breckenridge 2026: Dinner, Skiing and Where to StayPlanning Thanksgiving in Breckenridge 2026? Thanksgiving dinner, early-season skiing, family activities, hotels, shuttles, the Turkey Day 5K and a 5-day itinerary.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 1, 2026Sephora vs. Ulta Black Friday 2026: Who Has the Better Beauty Deals?Sephora or Ulta for Black Friday 2026? Compare sale dates, Beauty Insider discounts, Ulta's Early Black Friday deals, and the makeup and haircare I actually use.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 31, 2026Target Black Friday 2026: Early Deals, Toys, Christmas Gifts and Shopping GuideTarget's Deal of the Day starts Nov 1 and the Early Black Friday Sale runs Nov 5 to 7. Gifts under $20, Tickle Me Elmo, Target Circle and return rules.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 31, 2026Amazon Deals Today: Shark FlexStyle $249.99, Ninja Air Fryer Pro $79.99 and MoreToday's best Amazon deals in one list: Shark FlexStyle $120 off, Ninja Air Fryer Pro $79.99, Blink Mini $16.99, earbuds under $35 and beauty favorites.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 30, 2026Best Buy Black Friday 2026: Dates, Deals and What to KnowBest Buy Black Friday starts Nov 19. Every date, Thanksgiving hours, price match rules, holiday returns and my shopping checklist.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 30, 2026Breckenridge Holiday Events 2026: Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's EveBreckenridge holiday events 2026: the Dec 5 tree lighting and Race of the Santas, Thanksgiving dinner, Ullr Fest, New Year's Eve fireworks, and where to stay.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 30, 2026Thanksgiving in Gatlinburg & Pigeon Forge 2026: Where to Eat, Stay and PlayPlanning Thanksgiving in Gatlinburg or Pigeon Forge? 2026 Thanksgiving dinner, cabins and hotels, Dollywood, holiday lights, dog-friendly tips and a 5-day itinerary.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 30, 2026Friday Finds: Top Gifts for Women 202626 top gifts for women in 2026: viral skincare, red light masks, UGG slippers, cozy throws, massagers, candles, and faith-filled gifts.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 27, 2026Walmart Black Friday 2026: Dates, Times and Early DealsWalmart Black Friday 2026 starts Nov 12. Every date, start time, Walmart+ early access detail, return rule, and FAQ in one place.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 27, 2026Walmart Deals Today: Beats Studio Pro $149, Hoop Earrings $9.99 and MoreToday's best Walmart Flash Deals: Beats Studio Pro for $149, gold hoop earrings for $9.99, a robot vacuum for $79.99, and gifts under $25.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 27, 2026Walmart+ vs Amazon Prime 2026: Which Is Cheaper?Walmart+ is $98 a year, Amazon Prime is $139, and the new Walmart+ and Sam's Club bundle is $120. Here is what you get and which one fits you.Read More →FREE PRINTABLE · OCTOBER 26, 2026Midlife Pain and Symptom Tracker: Free PrintableA free printable monthly symptom tracker for midlife: log pain, periods, hot flashes, sleep, mood, and lifestyle changes, then bring it to your doctor.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 26, 2026Menopause Must-Haves for Hot Flashes and Sleep18 menopause must-haves for hot flashes and night sweats: cooling sheets, quiet fans, sleep comforts, and on-the-go relief from a menopause practitioner.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 23, 2026New Menopause Guidelines 2026: 8 Changes to KnowExplore eight key updates from the 2026 ACOG menopause guidelines, plus treatment questions and what early or surgical menopause may mean for your care.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 22, 2026Breast Implants: What I Wish I’d Known About Leak Checks and Breast Cancer ScreeningHad implants for years? Learn when to get an ultrasound or MRI, signs of silent rupture, insurance questions, and a printable implant record.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 21, 2026Know Your Normal: Breast Changes, Early Detection, and When to Make the CallWas I ever taught what to look for? Learn breast self-awareness, changes to report, when to start mammograms, dense breasts, and a family history printable.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 20, 2026Men Have Breasts, Too: Does Pink Keep You Away from the Doctor?Yes, men can get breast cancer. Learn the signs, how gynecomastia differs from a cancerous lump, what to say when you call, and where to go next.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 19, 202612 Menopause Questions Most People Forget to Ask Their Doctor12 menopause questions most people forget to ask their doctor, from hormone therapy and vaginal estrogen to bones, bleeding and birth control. Free printable.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 5, 2026You Don't Have to Carry This AloneScared something is wrong after having a baby? Learn the signs of postpartum depression, anxiety, and psychosis, what to say, and where to get help today.Read More →RESOURCE · SEPTEMBER 30, 2026What Are the Best New Books to Read in Fall 2026? 10 Must-Read New ReleasesLooking for the best new books for fall 2026? 10 must-read new releases: fiction, memoir, faith, family, grief, and personal growth.Read More →RESOURCE · MAY 21, 2026Starting Over Boundaries for Recovering People PleasersA lived-in guide for recovering people pleasers building healthier relationships, emotional boundaries, and social media boundaries.Read More →
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MENopause and Wellness (His & Hers)

Menopause, men's health, and real wellness for the messy middle

SHOP TILL YOU DROP · NOVEMBER 6, 2026Best Wellness and Fitness Gifts for Men 2026Men's Movember: the wellness, recovery and fitness gifts the guys actually asked for, plus a free Movember check-in printable.Read More →FREE PRINTABLE · OCTOBER 26, 2026Midlife Pain and Symptom Tracker: Free PrintableA free printable monthly symptom tracker for midlife: log pain, periods, hot flashes, sleep, mood, and lifestyle changes, then bring it to your doctor.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 26, 2026Menopause Must-Haves for Hot Flashes and Sleep18 menopause must-haves for hot flashes and night sweats: cooling sheets, quiet fans, sleep comforts, and on-the-go relief from a menopause practitioner.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 23, 2026New Menopause Guidelines 2026: 8 Changes to KnowExplore eight key updates from the 2026 ACOG menopause guidelines, plus treatment questions and what early or surgical menopause may mean for your care.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 22, 2026Breast Implants: What I Wish I’d Known About Leak Checks and Breast Cancer ScreeningHad implants for years? Learn when to get an ultrasound or MRI, signs of silent rupture, insurance questions, and a printable implant record.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 21, 2026Know Your Normal: Breast Changes, Early Detection, and When to Make the CallWas I ever taught what to look for? Learn breast self-awareness, changes to report, when to start mammograms, dense breasts, and a family history printable.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 20, 2026Men Have Breasts, Too: Does Pink Keep You Away from the Doctor?Yes, men can get breast cancer. Learn the signs, how gynecomastia differs from a cancerous lump, what to say when you call, and where to go next.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 19, 202612 Menopause Questions Most People Forget to Ask Their Doctor12 menopause questions most people forget to ask their doctor, from hormone therapy and vaginal estrogen to bones, bleeding and birth control. Free printable.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 5, 2026You Don't Have to Carry This AloneScared something is wrong after having a baby? Learn the signs of postpartum depression, anxiety, and psychosis, what to say, and where to get help today.Read More →

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Sunday Snapshots, devotionals, and faith for real life

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Starting Over

New chapters, fresh starts, and finding your voice again

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Marriage, friendships, family, and boundaries

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The Sweet Escape

Getaways, local guides, and seasonal travel tips

RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 9, 2026Christmas in Breckenridge 2026: For Couples, Families and Fur BabiesPlan Christmas in Breckenridge 2026: romantic getaways, family Christmas activities, dog-friendly hotels, Christmas Eve dinner, and sample itineraries.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 7, 2026Best Thanksgiving Getaways 2026: 15 Places to Escape for the HolidayMountain cabins, big cities and tropical beaches, with costs, family fun and pet-friendly picks.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 4, 2026Thanksgiving in New York City 2026: Where to Eat, Stay and PlayPlanning Thanksgiving in NYC 2026? The 100th Macy's Parade, where to watch free, parade-view hotels, Thanksgiving dinner, Home Alone 2 fun and a 5-day plan.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 2, 2026Thanksgiving in Breckenridge 2026: Dinner, Skiing and Where to StayPlanning Thanksgiving in Breckenridge 2026? Thanksgiving dinner, early-season skiing, family activities, hotels, shuttles, the Turkey Day 5K and a 5-day itinerary.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 30, 2026Breckenridge Holiday Events 2026: Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's EveBreckenridge holiday events 2026: the Dec 5 tree lighting and Race of the Santas, Thanksgiving dinner, Ullr Fest, New Year's Eve fireworks, and where to stay.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 30, 2026Thanksgiving in Gatlinburg & Pigeon Forge 2026: Where to Eat, Stay and PlayPlanning Thanksgiving in Gatlinburg or Pigeon Forge? 2026 Thanksgiving dinner, cabins and hotels, Dollywood, holiday lights, dog-friendly tips and a 5-day itinerary.Read More →

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Shop Till You Drop

Weekly finds, gift guides, and favorites on a budget

MONDAY MADNESS · NOVEMBER 9, 2026Christmas Gift Guide 2026: 15 Popular Gifts for Her, Him and KidsThe top-rated gifts from my storefront lists: hot toys, gifts for her and gifts for him, plus lists under $25, $50 and $250.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 8, 2026Beauty on a Budget: Affordable Finds I Actually UseAffordable beauty finds I actually use, most under $25: makeup, tinted SPF, body care and hair products from NYX, Maybelline, CeraVe, Aquaphor, Dove and TRESemmé.Read More →FRIDAY FINDS · NOVEMBER 6, 2026What to Wear to Thanksgiving 2026: 10 Easy Outfits for Her and HimCozy casual, sweater dresses, dressed-up dinner, football and flannel, and a sharp suit with no tie. Every piece linked.Read More →SHOP TILL YOU DROP · NOVEMBER 6, 2026Best Wellness and Fitness Gifts for Men 2026Men's Movember: the wellness, recovery and fitness gifts the guys actually asked for, plus a free Movember check-in printable.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 4, 2026Black Friday 2026: The Shopping Scoop, All in One PlaceTarget, Walmart, Best Buy, Amazon and Sephora sale dates, the hottest toys, Toy of the Year and my shopping prep list.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 4, 2026My Top 5 Beauty Must-Haves Over 40: For Women and Men in 2026My five beauty essentials at 44, what midlife skin needs, 2026 skincare trends, and a simple 5-product skincare routine for men.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 2, 20262026 Midlife Beauty Favorites: Everything I Actually Use, Love & Keep BuyingMy real skincare, makeup and haircare at 44: morning, night and travel routines, tinted SPF, drugstore finds and a few splurges.Read More →RESOURCE · NOVEMBER 1, 2026Sephora vs. Ulta Black Friday 2026: Who Has the Better Beauty Deals?Sephora or Ulta for Black Friday 2026? Compare sale dates, Beauty Insider discounts, Ulta's Early Black Friday deals, and the makeup and haircare I actually use.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 31, 2026Target Black Friday 2026: Early Deals, Toys, Christmas Gifts and Shopping GuideTarget's Deal of the Day starts Nov 1 and the Early Black Friday Sale runs Nov 5 to 7. Gifts under $20, Tickle Me Elmo, Target Circle and return rules.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 30, 2026Best Buy Black Friday 2026: Dates, Deals and What to KnowBest Buy Black Friday starts Nov 19. Every date, Thanksgiving hours, price match rules, holiday returns and my shopping checklist.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 31, 2026Amazon Deals Today: Shark FlexStyle $249.99, Ninja Air Fryer Pro $79.99 and MoreToday's best Amazon deals in one list: Shark FlexStyle $120 off, Ninja Air Fryer Pro $79.99, Blink Mini $16.99, earbuds under $35 and beauty favorites.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 30, 2026Friday Finds: Top Gifts for Women 202626 top gifts for women in 2026: viral skincare, red light masks, UGG slippers, cozy throws, massagers, candles, and faith-filled gifts.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 27, 2026Walmart Black Friday 2026: Dates, Times and Early DealsWalmart Black Friday 2026 starts Nov 12. Every date, start time, Walmart+ early access detail, return rule, and FAQ in one place.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 27, 2026Walmart Deals Today: Beats Studio Pro $149, Hoop Earrings $9.99 and MoreToday's best Walmart Flash Deals: Beats Studio Pro for $149, gold hoop earrings for $9.99, a robot vacuum for $79.99, and gifts under $25.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 27, 2026Walmart+ vs Amazon Prime 2026: Which Is Cheaper?Walmart+ is $98 a year, Amazon Prime is $139, and the new Walmart+ and Sam's Club bundle is $120. Here is what you get and which one fits you.Read More →RESOURCE · OCTOBER 26, 2026Menopause Must-Haves for Hot Flashes and Sleep18 menopause must-haves for hot flashes and night sweats: cooling sheets, quiet fans, sleep comforts, and on-the-go relief from a menopause practitioner.Read More →

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A Practice to Carry With You

The P.A.U.S.E. Framework™

Pause. Acknowledge. Understand. Surrender. Emerge.

When life feels overwhelming, these five steps offer a place to begin: slow down, name what you’re carrying, understand what you need, bring it to God, and take your next step.

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