Books on boundaries, confidence, faith, healing, and finding your voice in the messy middle.
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Books that changed me, challenged me, and helped me find language for the silence.
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Jenn's own memoir and the P.A.U.S.E. Framework - the journey from going silent to finding your voice again. Releasing October 6, 2026 from Ballast Books.
Pre-order & learn more →From Jenn's Just Jelly Unfiltered guest co-host, Maria Williams - on confidence, beauty, visibility, and the courage to show up as yourself in midlife.
Shop on Amazon →This book helped me realize boundaries are not punishment, they are protection. I spent years thinking being available to everyone made me loving. What I learned is that exhaustion and resentment eventually speak louder than honesty ever would have.
Shop on Amazon →The faith-rooted classic on when to say yes and how to say no - read by more than four million people.
Shop on Amazon →This book gave language to things I felt in my body long before I could explain them out loud. It helped me understand why survival mode keeps people stuck even when they desperately want peace.
Shop on Amazon →I read this during a season where I was tired of forcing myself through life. This book reminded me healing is not always about pushing harder. Sometimes it is finally feeling safe enough to slow down.
Shop on Amazon →A Christian perspective on why being limited is not a flaw, and how rest belongs in a faithful life.
Shop on Amazon →This book hit hard because it forced me to see how fear, overthinking, and self-protection can quietly become self-sabotage. Growth requires honesty most people avoid.
Shop on Amazon →This one challenged me deeply. It made me look at how often women perform versions of themselves just to keep everyone else comfortable.
Shop on Amazon →This book made me feel less alone in longing, grief, and the ache of transition. It reminded me there is beauty in tender people who still choose to stay open after disappointment.
Shop on Amazon →This book felt like permission to stop rushing my becoming. Waiting seasons are painful, but they are often where God does the deepest work.
Shop on Amazon →I think many women in midlife are exhausted from trying to hold together an image of perfection. This book helped me understand vulnerability is not weakness, it is courage.
Shop on Amazon →Stormie Omartian's bestselling series - a book of prayers and Scripture for every season and relationship.
There were seasons prayer was the only thing holding me together. This book reminded me God can handle honesty, fear, exhaustion, and silence too.
Shop on Amazon →Thirty focused chapters on praying for your husband - his work, emotions, leadership, faith, and future.
Shop on Amazon →How a husband can intercede for his wife, with prayer ideas and wisdom from well-known Christian men.
Shop on Amazon →Biblical guidance for praying together in unity, and trading conflict for peace and connection.
Shop on Amazon →Praying through every stage of your child's life, from early childhood into adulthood.
Shop on Amazon →Paired prayers - one for you, one for your child - covering faith, health, family, and friends.
Shop on Amazon →Praying for your grandchildren's protection, character, and faith - and for their parents too.
Shop on Amazon →The follow-up to The Power of a Praying Parent - how to keep covering your grown children in prayer.
Shop on Amazon →Dr. Emerson Eggerichs on the marriage dynamic of unconditional love and unconditional respect - and how to break the conflict cycle.
Shop on Amazon →This book helped me realize people can love each other deeply and still miss each other emotionally. Understanding how people give and receive love changes communication completely.
Shop on Amazon →This book helped me understand relationship patterns I could never fully explain before. Sometimes what we call “too much” is actually fear of abandonment, inconsistency, or emotional insecurity.
Shop on Amazon →Rick Warren's 40-day journey through life's biggest question - what on earth am I here for?
Shop on Amazon →I do not agree with every single thing in this book, but I respect what it taught me about discipline and financial freedom. Peace changes when you stop living in survival mode financially.
Shop on Amazon →Take what you feel led to read, and leave what isn't for you. I hope this list meets you somewhere in the messy middle.
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